Dear Damsels letter

Let Me Know When You’re Home // call for submissions

We're looking for submissions for our February 2020 paperback publication on female friendship.

Dear Damsels,

Over the years, we’ve written you forty-three letters: one for each month we’ve been running, each letter asking you to send us your words and stories. No matter the theme, you’ve responded, sharing with us your thoughts and feelings; your interpretation of a topic.

Out of everything that is discussed and explored in the writing we share on DD, there is one thing we never tire of reading about: female friendship. No matter the theme, we constantly receive submissions about the relationships between women. 

Maybe that’s because it’s the kind of quietly steadying force that doesn’t get enough attention – the accumulation of small moments, big hugs, loud laughs and, always, a request to let me know when you’re home.

From growing up together, to growing apart, from the oldest of friends to the fake ones, to keeping each other safe, our relationships with other women are multifaceted: they can be our greatest loves, deepest heartbreaks and the centres that we spiral back to time and time again. 

Because female friendship and connection is central to what we do at DD, we wanted to find a way to explore it in full, giving it the space it needs and deserves. 

In February 2020, we will be publishing Let Me Know When You’re Home: a collection of original fiction, non-fiction and poetry on the subject, and we want your words. 

DD is a voluntary platform, but we want to change that, working towards a position where we are able to pay those who write for us. As part of this effort, we will be launching our first crowdfunder to support the project costs, including payment for the writers who are selected to feature in the collection. 

Through this publication we hope to reach our widest audience yet, and we’d love to use this opportunity to promote wide-ranging and diverse perspectives on female friendship. We want to hear from everyone, whatever your story, and we’re especially keen to hear from women of colour and writers who feel underrepresented in publishing. 

At its heart, DD is a network of women, sharing each other’s work and listening to each other’s voices. Let Me Know When You’re Home is our way of celebrating that. So if you have something to say (and we’re betting you do), send your words our way by Sunday 11th August, 2019.

We can’t wait to hear from you.


DD x

More details

Subject to funding, our plan is for Let Me Know When You’re Home to be a paperback publication, released in February 2020.

We will be launching a crowdfunder in September 2019 in order to fund the payment of contributors, printing and design costs.

Should we not reach our financial target, we plan to release the collection online. If you have any questions about the project before submitting, please email and we’ll do our best to answer them.

Submission guidelines

We will be accepting fiction, non-fiction and poetry, as well as everything in between, but please note we will be favouring long-form pieces of writing for this collection.

We will also accept pitches for fiction and non-fiction. If you are sending a pitch, please send a 100-word summary and a sample of your writing in the same form (published or unpublished).

For long-form pieces of writing, the word count must be no longer than 5,000 words.

We are limiting submissions to one piece per author. Please send your submission as a separate document.

Please send all submissions to, including ‘Female Friendship’ in the email subject, your name and the title of the piece.

Please also provide a 100-word summary of the piece and a few lines about yourself.

We will do our very best to respond to all submissions by Sunday 25th August.

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